Saturday, July 21, 2012

Blue Ivy backlash: Are blacks bemoaning the chance that Beyoncé’s daughter might develop black features?

http://thegrio.com/2012/07/21/blue-ivy-backlash-are-blacks-bemoaning-the-chance-that-beyonces-daughter-might-develop-black-features/#s:beyonce-blue-ivy-backlash





Blue Ivy backlash: Are blacks bemoaning the chance that Beyoncé’s daughter might develop black features? | theGrio
i was reluctant to post this , because i felt others would seize the opportunity to launch a tirade against my people. then i thought is it me that is allowing this prejudice amongst us?  i thought "yes" so in the interest of ourselves as well as other's to free our minds here it is.
From Clutch Magazine: It wasn’t long after a picture of 7-month-oldBlue Ivy made its way to the Internet that the slander started. Facebook and Twitter posts lamented the fact that Beyoncé and Jay-Z’s daughter was starting to look like her father. There were mean-spirited jabs about her inheritance of his “big lips” and jaws, and prayers that a “wide nose” wasn’t in her future. Here are only a few of the comments I saw onlineBeyoncé really screwed up, having a baby by Jay-Z. His nose and lips are never going to look right on a girl.
Let’s pray Beyoncé’s genes kick in as B.I.C. gets older. All the money and talent in the world won’t take away from having Jay-Z’s features.
Nappy-headed kid. Wish Beyoncé had married a nice-looking man instead of Jay-Z.
The criticism of full lips, “nappy” hair, and wide noses in our communities is weighted. Some people would have you believe attractiveness is subjective, but the truth is our collective view of facial features is tangled in the web of racism. In our social imagination, European features set the standard for what’s beautiful, rendering broad noses and big lips ugly.
we need to identify ourselves, so as to better be understood by those we have to interact with in this world.  calmly i'm saying "wake up everybody"
those of other ethnic persuasions might not hurt to take a stroll through your mind sometime.

this type of self hate has been passed down through the generations from those who felt they could own another, pittig one against the other for favor. it's still in our mindset you have to acknowledge it before you can dispense it.