Thursday, March 20, 2014

McConnell fundraiser: Wives owe their husbands sex even if they're not in the mood


http://www.dailykos.com/story/2014/03/19/1285890/-McConnell-fundraiser-Wives-owe-their-husbands-sex-even-if-they-re-not-in-the-mood?detail=email
Quite the charmer Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell has hosting fundraisers for him. Dennis Prager is a talk radio host who thinks that one of the "mutual obligations" of marriage is for women to have sex with their husbands based on the husband's wishes and not the wife's "mood."
Writing on TownHall.com in December of 2008, Prager compares a man’s obligation to go to work, regardless of his “mood,” to a woman’s obligation to have sex with her husband.
“Why would a loving, wise woman allow mood to determine whether or not she will give her husband one of the most important expressions of love she can show him? What else in life, of such significance, do we allow to be governed by mood?” he writes.
“What if your husband woke up one day and announced that he was not in the mood to go to work?”
He goes on to compare a wife’s commitment to meeting the needs of their children or parents or friends even when not in the mood to having sex with her husband, asking that, because the woman is doing what’s “right in those cases, rather than what their mood dictates,” “Why not apply this attitude to sex with one’s husband?”
i recently said republicans support rape in another post, doesn't this imply that is true, since there is no respect for woman or what she says or wants the assumption that they can have sex when ever they have Viagra or young dumb and full of it,
and that regardless to lack of interest they are obligated, so they just roll over for those couple of minutes and have her fulfill her obligation to them tantamount to rape.
Why not? Um, because sex is a more intimate act than remembering to buy milk at the store? Because while people (husbands, wives, whoever) are paid to go to work and be professional about it, sex is supposed to be a mutual thing? Do men not benefit if their wives actually wantto have sex rather than doing it out of a sense of obligation?
I don't know, just spitballing here. Maybe I'm crazy and sex really is the wife's version of having a job. Except ... no, that doesn't make sense if you consider it in the context of how Republicans generally view sex workers; if you view the wife as a form of property it makes a little more sense,
though. And what if the wife also has a job? Then does she get to say "hey, I go to work regardless of my mood, just like you, so that means I get to say I'm not in the mood to have sex right now"?
IMO those who follow this ideology must have a loveless contract and maybe what they think is what it is, their women seem complacent as their men stand there and say the most egregious demeaning things about them and the support it.
WHERE'S THE LOVE? that is just complying to a contract of obligation, is that what they are so pissed off at woman for they have relegated them to this status and now mad that they complied?